Can a straight man wear 3 or 4 inch wedge strappy sandals in public with normal mens cloths on?

i mean i am straight and i have only wore the 4 inch strappy wedge sandals in my fiancee grandmoms house in the bed room where just me and my fiancee can see i could never wear them at my moms house never once i wore 1 inch wedge flip flops out and she saw me in them and shes like there girls shows dont ever wear them again you dont want people to think your gay right and i just sat there i wanted to say i like them and um not gay it makes me so sad casue i love the way they feel and the way they look and i wake up sad everyday casue there the only shoes i want to wear out just to scared to go out in public afaird of what people will do or say,but i can say i have wore 2 and 3 inch wedge flip flops out in public and no one cared and i no its not consderd crossdressing casue i just like the shoes but they were 2 and 3 inch wedge flip flops not 4 inch strappy wedge sandals

Can a straight man wear 3 or 4 inch wedge strappy sandals in public with normal mens cloths on?
By all means, wear them. If you already own them, then you obviously like them. And since you like them you should wear them. I've been wearing women's shoes in public and around my family and friends for 20 years. At first people look at you weird but once they seen you wearing them a few time no one will notice. Just wear them with confidences. Strangers may still giggle at you but that's to be expected. Some strangers come up to me and ask about my shoes, It's fun to talk to a complete stranger about the women's shoes I'm wearing. Good luck
Reply:WTF... NO..... HELL NO!
Reply:Straight men should not wear heels. Or any strappy shoes.
Reply:no, sorry





You know what I take that back. Wear what you want, just dont be concerned with all the crazy looks people will give you. Screw them
Reply:If you don't sit down in public and don't cross your legs and your pants touch the ground instead of just breaking over your instep, you might (and I say might) be able to carry it off un-noticed. Do you really care what people think? They'll get over it, you likely won't. Go ahead, live on the edge, push the envelope but realize that not everyone will appreciate your style.
Reply:if you're happy then you should


and if someone is rude and says something then that makes


them sound stupid for saying it


and yes, Mom's words hurt ( trust me, I've heard it all before,


but I guess it's just what I get for not being an exact copy


of my sister...) but most of the time they really do mean well


you just have to see that she doesn't want anything bad to


happen to you / upset you





I hopes this helps a little :)



flower