I really would like to wear sandals with jeans? How do I overcome this fear?

I am a guy who envys seeing another guy in sandals esp. with jeans and would really like to sport this look myself. I have done it in only on vacations where people did not know me and yet they seemed to sense my insecurity to this.

I really would like to wear sandals with jeans? How do I overcome this fear?
Hey there--sandals with jeans are awesome! I know it can be really hard to break out of our fashion comfort zones, but trust me, the joy you will feel in doing something you've really been wanting to do will not only give you a delightful feeling of freedom, but your joy in it will make others think, "I like that guy's style!"





I know how you feel because I was in a similar situation for a long time. I'd been wanting a pair of red sandals forever, but because of my limited budget I thought, "Well, if I'm buying a pair of shoes I should get black or brown. It will go with more and I can wear them for a long time." But every time I wore the black or brown shoes, I wished they were red. Finally I broke down a bought a pair of red sandals, and I wear them with everything and I feel so much self-confidence and joy just because I'm doing what I wanted to do and not worrying about what other people think. You know the saying--it's the little things in life (for example, sandals with jeans, red shoes) that make it special!
Reply:The majority of guys? I am a guy and I know tons of other guys, and I've never heard of this insecurity. Is this some religious or cultural thing?
Reply:I grew up in a beach town where all the men wore sandals in the summer (or flip flops). Do you live in a colder climate? Guys from up north are also much less likely to take of their shirts in public, as well.





There really is no equation that says sandals=not masculine, unless you are wearing high-healed sandals, I guess.
Reply:It's a great look. I think you have a little bit of a hang-up though. Now, I'm a female and have no problem wearing a short skirt (I like my legs) but I never wear sleveless anything. I am very self-conscious of my upper arms. But in your case, someone already suggested getting a pedicure. That's good. Plus someone said start wearing sandals around the house, etc. I think that is good, too.
Reply:you need to relax and go get a pedicure.
Reply:Just go to the mall and have fun overcomming you sandle fear.Try on many styles and colors and get some advise from a shoe clerk.
Reply:just put the b itches on your feet and walk out the door
Reply:try wearing them everywhere you feel comfortable, around the house, back yard, a quick run to the store.





the more you wear them the easier it will be.





plus remember the old saying, "don't care about what others think of you if you like it" or "don't sweat the small stuff"
Reply:Just act confident. Any girl can tell when you are insecure. If you are not really confident, wear a Hollister or A%26amp;F shirt with the jeans and sandals. Try not to care about what other people think, as long as you feel cool.
Reply:I know the fashion goes in %26amp; out but wear socks with your sandals.
Reply:First get a pedicure. Your feet will look better and you will feel more secure about them after someone has been touching them for an hour straight. Then wear sandals around the house until you feel comfortable. Or if you feel insecure just wear regular shoes.
Reply:Get a pedicure and relax about it. It looks good!
Reply:My opinion I think its hot!! Dont care what other people think just go with what you think looks good!!





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Reply:Yeah I would see where you would think that you would be giving up some of your man hood, it's only natural for you to feel like this. But just feel confident about what you wear and pimp it. We all go through changes with our ages and I think this is just a change for you. Just feel comfortable about what you wear and don't worry about noone else or what they think, heck they don't buy your groceries or your clothes for this case. Walk tall!
Reply:Sandles are a great fashion with jeans. 1.) don't worry about what anyone says, and 2.) sandles and jeans are a great fashion! :)
Reply:i think a guy in sandals and jeans looks laid back and therefore approachable... hope that helps
Reply:Ah, tap into your free spirit and imagine yourself back in the '60s following the surf and bongo's. Sandals are great, get yourself a professional pedicure which can prime you for exposing those tender hooves. A pedicure not only shows you are a gentleman of distinction but the touching and massage that goes with it will help you through your inhibitions. Babes appreciate a good foot....not a weenie dweeb hidden behind his tube socks and gym shorts.
Reply:just do it... i love it when guys wear sandals or flip flops it reminds me of the beach and summer ...when i want to try something new i just wear it and at school i get compliments all the time its because i show my confidence in what i wear and how i act if you have confidence and dont care what people think you can pull anything off if you want to know more you can just ask me i guess hope i helped
Reply:I love guys who are willing to show off their feet, it also makes you more approachable than the guy in shorts, long socks, and gym shoes.
Reply:In my personal opinion, guys who where sandals look BAD. But they have no lose of masculinity (dislectict). So, basically, you'de just be losing your cuteness, not your masculinity.





Hope this helped. : )
Reply:Hi there! Well as long as you have a clean feet then it's worth showing off:) If you have it, flaunt it!!! others have foot fetish you know:)



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